What do women REALLY want!!! – 2

“There are times when I want you to understand my silence, there are times when you do,

I want you to be proud of who I am, just the way your flaws ‘also’ make me proud of you!!!”

So after much anticipation, I thought to pen this down. The idea this time was catalysed by a friend who came with a problem. He didn’t want to hang out with his grilfriend’s friends even for a minute, he abhorred them! Well, on a mass feedback, there’s an easy route to it – tell, your girl to hang out with her friends as much as she wants and come back to you when she’s done! But here’s what I have to tell you, as a WOMAN, that what would your woman want!!!

Tell me this – Does 5 mins of bearing a person too much to ask for? I mean, she wasn’t asking you to hook up with the friend for the night! (Guess you’d be glad enough!) All you gotta do is put up a smile and tell her friends that she’s the best thing that has happened to you. If you don’t do all this jazz and follow path 1, it would hardly make a difference, she’ll still love you with all that she has. But if you make that extra effort to be there for her when she needs you, she would just feel lucky to have you. And by the way, wasn’t she the perfect host when last Saturday night your friends decided to raid your house. She put up with all that with a smile… right!

Women are ‘considered ‘ to be the most complicated creatures on earth, I couldn’t ever figure out why!!! Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus – Damn! I couldn’t ‘disagree’ more. Just the way we women can understand your urge to keep a cricket/football match over us, bear with your love for cars/bikes, know your whims for a drive a 2; why can’t you undersatnd that though we know you’re there for us and love us, we sometimes expect you to say it and your actions to prove it. Do you remember the last time you dediacted a song to her and ‘meant’ it??? Clueless! But once in a while, letting her know that you love her, not by bringing her flowers and saying “Honey! I Love You” after you make out; but by a little more meaningful things in life like picking her up in your arms and walking her upstairs because her feet hurt, or just doing the breakfast for her one morning… She’ll cherish it for a very long time after you did it!

Rule no. 2 - Mean what you say!!! Don’t say things you wouldn’t care about. It’s better to leave them unsaid than letting her build her castles of hope around it. So during courtship, when you said she looks sexy in a skirt, don’t tell her that you want her to cover up because she’s “your girlfriend” now. You should be proud of having a hot chic! Ever wondered why lions are such free souls? Because when they were cubs they had all the freedom to explore the jungle, but they never feared because they knew that from a distance, they’re being watched over! The moral – Let her fly, let her do things her way, give her a chance to rectify her mistakes the way she wants, let her talk to the random guy at the bar who complimented her… You just have to watch over her from a distance (Do Not Read SPY). This would be enough to make her feel secured. Don’t be one of those nagging and pushy guys who want to be like the trail of the jet! You know you’re quite a guy to have won such a beautiful lady; and she would feel the same for you when you let her be HERSELF, the way she’d let YOU be!!!

Would continue… Well, you should’ve guessed it!!! Ain’t the ‘understanding woman’ hormone triggered as yet???